Dolly Parton didn’t owe us a position on Israel and Palestine

Online posts cast Dolly Parton and Hayden Panettiere’s legacies through Israel and Palestine. Their legacies deserve more than speculation.
LOS ANGELES, CA - FEBRUARY 08: Dolly Parton performs onstage during MusiCares Person of the Year honoring Dolly Parton at Los Angeles Convention Center on February 8, 2019 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Rich Fury/Getty Images for The Recording Academy)
Dolly Parton performs onstage during MusiCares Person of the Year honoring Dolly Parton at Los Angeles Convention Center on February 8, 2019 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Rich Fury/Getty Images for The Recording Academy)

More than a month after Dolly Parton’s death, her legacy is still taking shape. Her Imagination Library is expanding across London, making 157,000 children eligible to receive free books. Her music continues reaching generations of listeners, most recently through Kacey Musgraves’ tribute at the VMAs, where she performed Dolly’s iconic “I Will Always Love You.” And, online, another question has lingered: Where did Dolly Parton stand on Palestine?

That last question struck me.

Dolly spent seven decades building a legacy through music, philanthropy, and an unusually broad appeal across political and cultural divides. Yet in the days after she died, I found myself watching a very different conversation unfold online: Did Dolly support Palestine? And should the answer change how we remember her?

Dolly, one of the most prolific entertainers and songwriters of the last century, passed away on August 25, 2026, at the age of 80. She left behind a career of music, storytelling and philanthropy that cemented her not only as a musical icon, but as a fixture in American pop culture.

When her passing was announced, I unexpectedly took it very personally. I wasn’t the biggest Dolly Parton fan. No specific reason whatsoever; I just hadn’t consumed much of her work. I was introduced to Dolly through “Hannah Montana”, where she played Miley Stewart’s Aunt Dolly, mirroring her real-life role as Miley Cyrus’ godmother. Then came Miley’s cover of “Jolene,” and eventually a greater appreciation for Dolly herself.

Dolly wasn’t just extraordinarily talented. By seemingly countless accounts, she was also a genuinely good person. 

Alongside her gargantuan music career, she always gave back. Beyond the Imagination Library, she donated $1 million toward COVID-19 research that contributed to the development of Moderna’s vaccine and consistently voiced support for LGBTQ+ people.

To lose someone like that weighs especially heavy.

As heartfelt tributes poured in, one video caught my attention — and then I started noticing something much stranger.

Two days after her passing, creator @illeshamarie posted an Instagram video titled “Did Dolly Parton Support Palestine?” 

The creator acknowledged that Dolly never publicly took a position on Palestine, but argued that her embrace of the U.S. military complicated her insistence that she wasn’t political. Pointing to Dolly’s support for American service members around the Gulf War and Iraq War, she argued that publicly embracing the military during wartime is inherently political—and therefore that it was fair for Palestinians and Palestine supporters to ask where Dolly stood.

Most strikingly to me, the video explicitly raised the question of whether a celebrity’s support for Palestine should matter to “how people remember them.”

But what does that tell us about someone who never publicly stated a position?

Parton generally resisted partisan politics, grounding her public philosophy in what she described as “love and acceptance and lifting people up.” She wasn’t devoid of opinions. Far from it. She simply seemed more interested in finding common ground than telling half the country to go to hell.

And Dolly did speak about issues when she wanted to. She supported same-sex marriage years before the Supreme Court legalized it nationwide. She expressed support for transgender people. She spoke about racism and Black Lives Matter. Avoiding partisan politics did not mean she was incapable of having or expressing convictions.

Israel and Palestine simply do not appear to have been among the issues on which she publicly chose to weigh in.

I could find no public statement from Dolly explicitly supporting Palestine. But here’s the part that seems to get conveniently lost: I couldn’t find one explicitly supporting Israel, either.

To be fair, the creator isn’t wrong about the history. Dolly visited Fort Hood in 1991 after American troops returned from the Persian Gulf.  She later released the patriotic album “For God and Country” in 2003.

Where I disagree is with what we are supposed to extrapolate from that.

I can concede that patriotism can have political implications. But meeting with service members and showing them kindness does not mean you support every single action of the U.S. government or military. People can reasonably criticize Dolly’s public support for the military or disagree with the politics of her patriotic music. But those actions don’t establish what she believed about Israel and Palestine. Supporting soldiers does not mean supporting every war. And none of those things tell us what Dolly thought about Israelis, Palestinians, Gaza, settlements, Hamas, Netanyahu, or a two-state solution.

And I frankly don’t see why Dolly needed to make some big statement on Israel and Palestine in the first place. The conflict was never central to her work, her advocacy, or her public identity. Celebrities are human beings, not walking foreign-policy platforms. They don’t owe us a comprehensive statement on every geopolitical conflict simply because they have a microphone and millions of followers.

Let the woman rest in peace.

There’s also another dimension of Dolly’s life that makes this whole conversation particularly interesting: her meaningful connections to the Jewish community.

Dolly had an extraordinarily close relationship with her longtime manager and business partner, Sandy Gallin, who was Jewish. After his death, she beautifully described their unlikely bond: “Nobody could quite get how the Christian Southern girl and the New York Jewish boy could have so much in common. But it was real.”

Her Jewish connections extended beyond Gallin. In 2005, Jewish philanthropist Harold Grinspoon heard Dolly discussing her Imagination Library on the radio. Her mission helped inspire him to adapt the model to Jewish literacy, creating PJ Library, which sends Jewish children’s books to families around the world.

But here’s where I refuse to play the same game from the opposite direction.

Dolly’s close relationship with a Jewish man does not make her a Zionist. Inspiring an enormously successful Jewish literacy program doesn’t prove she supported Israel. Neither tells us what she thought about the Israeli government or Palestinians.

Jewish relationships aren’t proxies for someone’s views on Israel, just as supporting a pro-Palestinian colleague doesn’t automatically establish someone’s own position on Israel and Palestine.

Which brings me to Hayden Panettiere.

Hayden died nine days before Dolly, on August 16, 2026, at just 36 years old. That loss also weighed heavily on me, considering how young she was.

Amid the tributes, a post from the verified Instagram account PAL Free Palestine came up on my feed. Its memorial graphic declared: “AMERICAN ACTRESS HAYDEN PANETTIERE PASSES AWAY, KNOWN FOR HER SUPPORT OF PALESTINE.”

That immediately caught my attention, so I dug deeper.

The evidence offered in the accompanying caption was that Hayden had spoken out in support of her former “Scream” co-star Melissa Barrera after she was fired from the franchise following social media posts about Gaza. Hayden did criticize the firing, calling it “very unfair and upsetting.”

That happened. I’m not disputing it.

But standing by Melissa Barrera does not automatically tell us Hayden’s own views on Israel and Palestine.

Despite looking, I could find no public statement in which Hayden explicitly endorsed Palestine, condemned Israel or otherwise articulated her own position on the conflict. That doesn’t mean such a statement could not have existed—an expired Instagram Story or an unindexed comment can easily disappear into the internet ether—but I couldn’t find one.

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - SEPTEMBER 13: Hayden Panettiere attends the Los Angeles Premiere of Netflix's New Film "Blonde" at TCL Chinese Theatre on September 13, 2022 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)
Hayden Panettiere attends the Los Angeles Premiere of Netflix’s New Film “Blonde” at TCL Chinese Theatre on September 13, 2022 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)

And yet, after her death, she was being declared “known for her support of Palestine.”

That post felt manipulative to me.

Hayden stood by a co-star who she believed had been treated unfairly. Turning that into a defining political position after her death felt like a leap she was no longer here to clarify herself.

The Dolly and Hayden examples become almost mirror images of each other.

Dolly apparently didn’t publicly state a position, so her silence became something to interrogate.

Hayden apparently didn’t publicly articulate a position either, but an adjacent action was elevated into a declaration of allegiance.

One woman effectively gets asked: Why didn’t she speak?

The other gets claimed as: She was one of us.

These were two posts I encountered, not the entirety of how either woman was remembered. But both reflected an impulse I find troubling: the urgency to establish where recently deceased celebrities belonged on an ideological spectrum they never publicly placed themselves on.

There is something deeply selfish about commandeering someone’s death—and other people’s grief—to reaffirm your own political worldview. That doesn’t mean Palestinian suffering isn’t worthy of advocacy or that people should stop caring about Gaza. But moral urgency does not give any cause ownership over every cultural moment.

Not every obituary needs to double as a geopolitical voting record.

I wish I could say that was the only ugliness I saw directed at Dolly after her death, but Separately, Dolly’s death also prompted an explicitly antisemitic attack.

Shortly afterward, her Wikipedia page was vandalized with swastikas and antisemitic language, including the phrase “Jew lover.” Reporting connected that particular slur to Dolly’s decades-long friendship and professional relationship with Gallin. The edits were quickly removed, but weaponizing her friendship with a Jewish man against her is grotesque.

To be abundantly clear, there is no evidence that this antisemitic vandalism was connected to the Palestine discourse surrounding Dolly. Conflating the two would be irresponsible.

What struck me in both instances was the willingness to make her legacy about something she had never publicly claimed for herself—whether by attacking her Jewish relationships or scrutinizing her silence on Israel and Palestine.

As someone who consumes—and works within—pop culture and the performing arts, I recognize just how much Dolly Parton gave us through her artistry, philanthropy, and good spirit. Her loss was enormous.

And Hayden Panettiere deserves her flowers, too.

She was a gifted actress whose career began when she was a child and spanned decades, from “Remember the Titans” and “Raising Helen” to “Heroes,” “Nashville,” and “Scream 4.” And for those of us whose hearts remain permanently lodged somewhere in the 2000s, she gave us “Bring It On: All or Nothing” and “Ice Princess.”

That last one feels particularly bittersweet now. “Ice Princess” paired Hayden with 2000s Jewish icon Michelle Trachtenberg, whom we also lost far too young in 2025. 

For someone like me who grew up with these women on my screen, there is something especially painful about realizing they’re both gone.

Hayden was a daughter, a mother, a colleague, an artist, and a human being whose life amounted to infinitely more than one comment about a co-star’s firing. She deserves to have the fullness of that life remembered, just as Dolly does.

We should be able to mourn people without first checking whether they said “Free Palestine,” supported Israel, stayed silent, or checked whatever political box the internet has decided is required that week.

Mourning someone is not an endorsement of every belief they held. It isn’t an endorsement of every belief they didn’t hold. And silence on one geopolitical conflict does not erase a lifetime of work, generosity, or humanity.

For people to engage in this kind of litmus testing is, ironically, the antithesis of who Dolly Parton was: a woman who loved deeply regardless of where you came from, who you loved or what you believed.

Dolly’s Imagination Library is still putting books into children’s hands. Her music is still reaching people who weren’t born when she wrote it. Those are things she deliberately gave the world. We have plenty to remember her for without filling in the blanks of a political position she never publicly expressed.

Dolly Parton and Hayden Panettiere gave us plenty to remember them for. Neither woman’s death needed to become another referendum on Israel and Palestine.

Their lives were bigger than that.

May both of their memories forever be a blessing.

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